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process, act as advisors to the clients and when they do negotiate
they stop short of taking control from the clients.
The new solicitor-client relationship remains traditional in the sense that the dynamic is rooted in a client-centered approach with the lawyer serving as a resource. This resource informs the process. In addition, the lawyer serves to model a highly effective interest-based negotiator. This dynamic is fostered in the context of safe and secure structures organized to develop preferred options reflecting maximum and mutual gain in negotiation theory. Unlike independent legal advice in mediation as an external lineal adjunct, this lawyer is integrally involved in the formation and facilitation of advanced negotiation.
And we emergent collaborative law lawyers will use the new skills developed in ADR to reach wise and durable settlements. This is the great benefit of mediation as informing and nurturing the collaborative family practice. But mark you, Rule 25 lawyers as mediators does not apply. Collaborative family practice is law and law is for lawyers.
The Law Society and LPIC look for that solicitor-client relationship in the specifically structured contract between the lawyer and the client known as the Participation Agreement. There is a fundamental duty to practice law in existence although the application is knowingly and therefore validly referenced to settlement as opposed to litigation. We are well past any philosophical challenge in discharging our ethical and primordial duties to our clients in doing our best for them. And enlightened from the shadow of the win-lose matrix in litigation, our probability for success within win-win thinking is maximized. Simply put, we can consistently do a better job on a level playing field or, dare I say, advanced plateau.
It is understood that if settlement is not reached the lawyers must withdraw, and neither they nor any member of their firms may represent the clients in subsequent litigation. This is to ensure that there is total commitment to the settlement frame of reference. Some people criticize this termination as a weakness but it is a core strength and value in this process to facilitate shift. And as we know – shift happens.
The basic steps of the process start with an assessment of the client’s needs. Mike Porter commented, “Who the client is and what the client wants is all that matters”. We look for consistencies and inconsistencies with their three-model choice while we frame our informed recommendations concerning mediation, collaborative law or litigation having regard to the client’s specific needs and vision for their family’s transition.
Lawyers fulfill a necessary function in CFL by activating their significant yet limited role as legal advisors, problem solvers, process managers and negotiation coaches. Don’t bother going back to law school. You won’t find it there…yet. You may also get a sense of this additional necessity for advanced interpersonal and negotiation skills when you remember that adversarial techniques to advance the negotiations, such as court connected intimidation are unavailable. That’s right; you are waiting under the dueling oak without your derringer. Other means of persuasion must be utilized and in a collaborative practice, to quote Jim MacDonald, Q.C., “the means of persuasion swing 180 degrees to adopt cooperative strategies”.
CFL lawyers interact with each other and their clients in ways and means consistent with conflict reduction, settlement based negotiation and effective communication. We proactively organize joint agendas and integrated critical planning which accelerates our client’s control over their process far from the madding litigation crowd. This is simply intended as a comparative observation particularly in light of the statutory reasoning behind case or settlement conferences (ie. 1. disclosure; 2. strategic planning; 3. settlement). CFL lawyers promote mutual disclosure and joint planning as essential steps to comprehensive settlement so the “catch me if you can” case conference dance is all tapped out. There is no need for any thought of court for the purposes of disclosure or planning and the idea of going to court for settlement is presumably as cost effective as buying a 747 airplane just for the peanuts.
The process advances through the groundwork of client preparation and lawyer to lawyer conferences to the summit of the four party settlement conference. At this juncture, there is sufficient information, advanced preconditioning and commitment to transmute the facilitated negotiation into a wise, durable and comprehensive agreement. Throughout the whole process we have avoided confrontation tactics and intimidating demands. The method reverts to values and works with people’s insight into their changes and growth as individuals in transition.
Families undergoing the divorce and separation experience do not need and cannot bear the additional stress and cost of litigation’s blame frame. Of course, not every case is a fit for CFL. However, many people would benefit from taking mutual charge of their transition issues and getting their simple interests into joint problem solving within an appropriate dispute resolution process. Similarly, despite best intentions there may be contraindications to a mediation referral. Collaborative law constitutes a common sense portal to people working through their own destiny with sufficient professional resources. Indeed, the significant majority of separating couples may come to choose this balanced approach as their most attractive next step. Hence, collaborative law represents a new and important bearing in ADR’s manifest destiny.
By nature, CFL lawyers reject the adversarial leverage, distributive thinking and emotional bitterness that is endemic in litigation. The CFL process requires professional non-enmeshment, integrated thinking and cooperative strategies predicated on empowered efficient settlements and new working relationships. Some litigators think that they practice this way already. We invite you to continue your self reflection and open up to CFL trainings and our network protocols to enhance your natural abilities with new learning opportunities. However, comparing litigation’s cooperative strategies with the remarkably dissimilar CFL principles and process understates collaborative law’s phenomenal growth, attraction and potential. It’s like assessing the productive capacity of the computer age on the ability to email. So surf’s up – go for the next wave of collaborative law training. For more information on the Ottawa Collaborative Law Network visit: www.collaborative-law.ca.

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